How to Start a Journal Practice

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If you don’t already, you have likely thought about establishing a personal journal. However, you may be one of the many that feels like you have failed if you do not write everyday or if you feel like you have nothing to say. Today I want to give you an introduction to my version of how to start a journal practice.  

Notice I said MY version of journal writing. Your journal style does not have to be like mine – or anyone else’s. There is no right or wrong way to journal write – you just need to write. 

I have been a journal writer for most of my life and there have been years in my life when I barely filled up a journal. There have been other years when I have completed more than one journal. I share with people that your journal is your friend/therapist/companion at 2:00 in the morning or 2:00 in the afternoon. 

Research continues to show the benefit journal writing has upon health. It has been shown to increase t-cell production along with assist with improving overall mood in as short amount of time as 3-4 days of writing for only 20 minutes. Much cheaper than medication or a physician appointment.

The first thing in beginning to journal write is to find what you would like to write in. It doesn’t matter if it is a spiral notebook, bound leather journal or even your computer. Simply make sure it is something that you enjoy. 

I encourage people to leave the first page blank on a journal and when you begin  an entry to date it with the day of the week, date and time of day (it helps if you decide to reread at a later time).

Here are a few guidelines I share with others when we discuss How to Journal…..
  • Don’t worry about spelling or grammar
  • You can write everyday, once a week or once a  month
  • Use your favorite pencil, pen, crayon or marker (or all of them)
  • Tell the story of a particular day or certain moment 
  • List some of your fears and worries
  • List things you are proud of
  • Write letters to friends and family (they don’t have to read them)
  • Write out your prayers 
  • Draw pictures of how you feel or a place you have visited
  • Place pictures or other objects you want to keep 
  • Remember THERE IS NO RIGHT OR WRONG WAY to journal!!! 
Most of us journal in some form already –  a blog,  daily calendars, bank account statements,and social media postings. A personal journal simply allows you a place to put your emotions and thoughts without judgement of others (which sometimes happens when you put that rant out in a post or Twitter).
 If you are still uncertain, I encourage you to try nothing more than starting a daily gratitude journal. Each day, list 3 things you are grateful for on that day. If you are having a difficult time handwriting things, I suggest you try Happy Rambles. Register with this (free) site and each day it will send you an e-mail (at your chosen time) and ask you what you are happy/grateful for that day. All you need to do is reply with your list and it is saved under your profile. You can respond from your phone or computer just like any other e-mail. There are also various other apps for your phone to try.
Give yourself a week of beginning to journal on a simple basis and you may find you want to do more. Let me know about your own journal practice
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22 Comments

  1. socalledhomemaker on May 13, 2015 at 8:56 am

    I love these tips! I’ve just recently started journaling consistently and I love it!



    • Sheryl @ How to Make a Life on May 14, 2015 at 10:30 pm

      Journaling is truly therapeutic. I’m so glad you are doing it consistently.



  2. Bourbon & Lipstick on May 13, 2015 at 9:44 am

    I love when you discuss journal tips. I am excited to begin!



    • Sheryl @ How to Make a Life on May 14, 2015 at 10:29 pm

      Next week I’m going to start with tips and reasons to journal write. My hope is to get my Journal Notes series started again.



  3. Emily @ Ember Grey. on May 13, 2015 at 10:13 am

    “your journal is your friend/therapist/companion at 2:00 in the morning or 2:00 in the afternoon.” I LOVE that. I keep a prayer journal in an actual journal but then use a private platform to journal my personal thoughts via the keyboard 😉 My brain moves too fast sometimes for me to write it all down, although I love to journal in a journal when I travel!



    • Sheryl @ How to Make a Life on May 14, 2015 at 10:27 pm

      So many people are now using the computer to journal. I still have to handwrite my private thoughts as I love the way pen feels and it also helps me to review what I’ve written. I can always tell a lot about my mood from the way my handwriting looks.



  4. claire on May 13, 2015 at 11:48 am

    I always think I want to start a journal again but never ever seem to. I think I see my blog as a kind of journal x



    • Sheryl @ How to Make a Life on May 14, 2015 at 10:25 pm

      Our blogs are journals in many ways but there are also things we probably don’t want to make “public” for everyone to see. Since I’ve been blogging, I do not write in my private journal as often as I used to. Thanks for stopping by!



  5. TheJessaOlsonBlog on May 13, 2015 at 2:56 pm

    I use to love to journal. I did it all the time growing up but then my mom started reading it so I stopped. I still feel sometimes that I need to get back to it but I always have that fear of someone reading it.



    • Sheryl @ How to Make a Life on May 14, 2015 at 10:24 pm

      Jessa, I’m so sorry your privacy was invaded. That does make it hard to develop and keep a routine. Start with lists and things you are grateful for and maybe that will help you begin a practice.



      • TheJessaOlsonBlog on May 15, 2015 at 9:51 am

        I need to make time for it. I started a list of things I was grateful for by my bed but I haven’t done it in any while.



  6. Mar on May 13, 2015 at 9:04 pm

    I have a beautiful new journal just waiting to be cracked. I think it may be time 🙂



    • Sheryl @ How to Make a Life on May 14, 2015 at 10:22 pm

      Yes, open that beautiful book up. Don’t wait for the perfect time because now is the perfect time.



  7. Alexis @ Chemistry Cachet on May 14, 2015 at 10:38 am

    I love keeping a journal or even just jotting down chicken scratch thoughts! I also enjoy looking back on them years later to see what I was thinking back then 🙂 Thanks for sharing this great post!



    • Sheryl @ How to Make a Life on May 14, 2015 at 10:21 pm

      I have a multitude of journals, some I keep in my purse, some at work and of course my “private” journals. It’s always interesting to look back and what I’ve written.



  8. Mia Sutton on May 15, 2015 at 12:22 am

    I love your journal posts! 🙂 Journaling is my absolute favorite. 🙂 These are great tips, Sheryl!



  9. Diana on May 15, 2015 at 12:33 pm

    Great tips on here. One of the things I have to remind myself is that it doesn’t matter how much or how little I journal. I also have stopped in the past because I’m not doing it as often as I would like. However, I’m trying to let my journal be a place where I’m allowed to be imperfect. You are right about how there is no right or wrong way. It just is what it is.

    Also, I want to add, that I completely agree with writing the day of the week that you are writing, looking back on old entries I’ll wonder what day of the week I had that thought.



    • Sheryl @ How to Make a Life on May 15, 2015 at 6:17 pm

      I believe that the empty spaces between dates in our journals tell their own stories. I look back at mine and either know that things were extremely good in my life or not so great at all. And yes, dating is so important. It provides a timeline of our life.



  10. Mrs.AOK on May 15, 2015 at 4:39 pm

    I have 5,001 different journals. All my journals are quite random and sadly they are everywhere.
    I have a journal for each child that I need to really get back to. I kept a journal specifically for the time my husband was away in Iraq. But now everything is random- I should really fix that.
    Thanks for another great post, Sheryl!
    XOXO



    • Sheryl @ How to Make a Life on May 15, 2015 at 6:15 pm

      Why don’t you try just putting everything up that you have and starting over? Sometimes when we have too much already in progress it’s too difficult to keep up. Think about how many you want to have at one time and start again. The great thing about journal writing is you can start over multiple times. Half written journals tell their own stories.



  11. Robyn Black on June 3, 2015 at 3:42 pm

    i used to journal regularly but i’ve gotten out of the practice in the past few years because life just threw a curveball & got super busy. but i do believe journaling is so important! i read about something i want to try a few weeks ago – called “morning pages” – basically in the morning as soon as you wake up, you just write 2-3 stream of consciousness pages…. it could definitely help starting off the morning by getting some thoughts out!