Eight Suggestions for New Journal Writers

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Last week I shared how to start a journal practice and received many responses from individuals who would like to start a journal or keep a journal but do not  do so consistently. Today I wanted to provide eight suggestions for new journal writers.  These suggestions are truly suggestions but can provide a framework and foundation for keeping a journal. At the core of keeping a journal, remember that there is no right or wrong and it needs to be personalized for the writer. You aren’t graded on your journal.

Eight Suggestions for New Journal Writers 

1. Protect Your Privacy A friend shared that she kept a journal when she was young but stopped once her mother began reading it. Planning where you are going to store your journal is something you need to consider in the beginning. Think about storing it in a place where the temptation for others to read is diminished. Reserve the first page of any new journal for your name, phone number or email, along with a notice: This is my personal journal. Please do not read without my permission. If none of that would stop whoever might read your journal, get a shredder or burn what you have written. Find a creative way to protect your privacy, such as a new gmail or yahoo account, password protected, from which to write to yourself at that address. Or keep your journal on a flashdrive. Make privacy and intentional act. 2. Start with an entrance meditation Nearly every journal technique benefits from a few minutes of focused quieting. Use visualization, soft music, candles, making a cup of tea or coffee, deep breathing, stretches or whatever works for you. 3. Date every entry If you establish only one habit in your journal, let it be this one! Dating every entry allows you to chronologically reconstruct your journal by date. It allows you to look back to see what you were thinking or doing at a specific time. When I was diagnosed with hypothyroidism, my journal allowed me to see that I had been dealing with fatigue for much longer than I was remembering. Dating every entry also allows you to hear the silence between your entries. 4. Keep (and re-read) what you write Often the writes that feel like throw aways contain seeds for future insight. Keep it, reread it later, and surprise yourself with how much you knew that you didn’t know you knew! 5. Write quickly  You can outsmart “journal block” by writing so fast that the Internal critic and internal censor can’t keep up. Keep your pen (or fingers) moving! 6. Start writing, keep writing  Start with the present moment. (“What’s going on now?”) or start with a feeling (“I’m so mad I could explode!”) Start with a story (“Today the weirdest thing happened….”) Once you’ve started , don’t go back to edit or rewrite. And don’t think too much. Let it flow. 7. Tell yourself the truth Your own truth is not your enemy. Don’t try to talk yourself out of knowing what you know or feeling what you feel. Give yourself permission to tell the truth. Also give yourself permission to pace yourself. If the truth seems too bright, then slow it down. 8. Write naturally If there is one rule of true journal writing, it is that there are simply no rules! Do what works. Make lists or write freely. Don’t worry about what you’re not doing. Give yourself permission. Let yourself enjoy the process.
Source: The Center for Journal Therapy www.journaltherapy.com

What suggestions will you utilize? 

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9 Comments

  1. Diana on May 20, 2015 at 8:12 am

    I think the biggest thing is to not edit yourself when writing in a journal. There’s definitely no right or wrong. You have to think of it as a place that places no judgement on you.



    • Sheryl @ How to Make a Life on May 20, 2015 at 6:49 pm

      It takes some practice to not edit yourself but once you are able to write freely it’s amazing what comes to the surface.



  2. Caroline @ In Due Time on May 20, 2015 at 10:01 am

    I have times where I journal a lot and others where I don’t at all. These are some great tips, so thanks for sharing!



    • Sheryl @ How to Make a Life on May 20, 2015 at 6:48 pm

      Caroline, I believe that the times where we don’t journal say a lot and speak their own words. I’ve gone as long as 6 -7 months without writing in my journal (and that was before I started the blog). Your journal is there when you need it to be.



  3. Bethany Magnie on May 20, 2015 at 7:37 pm

    Journaling is such a great hobby, I need to get back into actually writing with pen and paper instead of just blogging!



    • Sheryl @ How to Make a Life on May 20, 2015 at 7:42 pm

      Although blogging can be considered a type of journaling – it’s not the same as keeping a private journal for your thoughts. I hope you can get back into the practice. Thanks for stopping by!



  4. Mia Sutton on May 20, 2015 at 10:55 pm

    Excellent tips, as always, my favorite journal buddy. 🙂 I think everyone can benefit from journalling, and this is a great way for people to get started! xo



  5. Jen - Pierced Wonderings on May 23, 2015 at 11:35 am

    These are great tips! For me a big with one journaling is consistency. If I don’t do it, then it’s so much harder. If I do it regularly – and I mean every day – then I can fly through my pages in no time flat. The words come easier and everything is smoother.

    Stopping by from Sharefest!



  6. Emily @ Ember Grey. on October 8, 2015 at 8:59 am

    I love #7 especially – your journal should be a safe place, a place that can always “handle” the absolute truth 🙂 Great tips, Sheryl!